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How can I help you?  First, how are you?  Satisfied with how things are going? 

 

GENERAL CONTENTMENT SCALE  ( BASED ON SCALES BY Walter Hudson PhD)

THIS QUESTIONAIRE IS DESIGNED TO MEASURE THE DEGREE OF CONTENTMENT  OR DISCONTENT THAT YOU FEEL

ABOUT YOUR LIFE AND SURROUNDINGS.    IT IS NOT A TEST, SO THERE ARE NO RIGHT OR WRONG ANSWERS.

ANSWER EACH ITEM AS CAREFULLY AND ACCURATELY AS YOU CAN BY PLACING A NUMBER BESIDE EACH ONE AS  FOLLOWS. 

It will give us something to guide our thinking and to talk about:  How CONTENTED are you with your life?

 

         1       RARELY OR NONE AT ALL 

          2        A LITTLE OF THE TIME

          3        SOME OF THE TIME

          4        A GREAT DEAL OF THE TIME

          5        MOST OR ALL OF THE TIME

 

_____  1.  i FEEL POWERLESS TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT MY LIFE

_____  2.  I FEEL BLUE

_____  3.  I AM RESTLESS AND CAN'T KEEP STILL

_____  4.  I HAVE CRYING SPELLS

_____  5.  IT'S VERY HARD FOR ME TO RELAX

_____  6,  I HAVE A HARD TIME GETTING STARTED ON THINGS I NEED TO DO.

_____  7.  I DON'T SLEEP WELL AT NIGHT.

_____  8.  WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH, I FEEL THERE IS NO ONE TO TURN TO.

_____  9.  I FEEL THAT THE FUTURE LOOKS BLACK TO ME

_____  10. I FEEL DOWNHEARTED.

_____  11. I FEEL THAT I AM NOT NEEDED IN THIS LIFE OR BY ANYONE.

_____  12. I DON'T FEEL APPRECIATED BY ANYONE.

_____  13.  I DON'T TAKE ANY JOY IN BEING ACTIVE AND BUSY ALL THE TIME.

_____  14. I FEEL THAT OTHERS WOULD BE MUCH BETTER OFF WITHOUT ME.

_____  15.  i DON'T LIKE BEING WITH OTHER PEOPLE.  

_____  16.  IT'S VERY HARD FOR ME TO MAKE DECISIONS.

_____  17.  I FEEL DOWNTRODDEN

_____  18.  I AM IRRITABLE

_____  19.  I GET UPSET EASILY.

_____  20.  IT'S HARD FOR ME TO HAVE A GOOD TIME.

_____  21.  MY LIFE IS BORING.

_____  22.  I DON'T FEEL THAT ANYONE CARES ABOUT ME.

_____  23.  I NEVER HAVE ANY FUN OR JOY IN MY LIFE.

_____  24' .MORNING IS THE WORST TIME OF MY DAY.

_____  25.  I FEEL HOPLESS ABOUT MY SITUATION AND HELPLESS TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.

 _____  ADD UP THE SCORES AND PUT THE TOTAL HERE

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25 TO 50     = CHANCES ARE YOU ARE CONTENTED OR  VERY CONTENTED AND HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE.

51 TO  75    = A LITTLE OF THE TIME YOU ARE SOMEWHAT DISCONTENTED WITH YOUR LIFE.

75 TO 100   = SOME OF THE TIME OR A GOOD PART OF THE TIME YOU FEEL DISCONTENTED

                     AND UNHAPPY IN YOUR LIFE

100 TO 125 = MOST OR ALL OF THE TIME YOU FEEL DOWNHEARTRD,DEPRESSED AND DISCONTENTED

                     WITH HOW YOUR LIFE IS GOING

 

 I hope this scale will underline areas of need in your life. 

It is also important when you take such an inventory of

your inner self that you take joy in those areas

that are peaceful, fulfilling and joyful.   

I would like to meet with you and explore the blessings

of your strengths and support you in lifting yourself

out of your weaknesses

address those needs.